By TAYLOR RYAN.
For my generation, this important new law is an essential first step in preventing sexual exploitation and abuse.
Not so long ago, when I was a senior student at a conservative high school, the topic of consent was rarely discussed in the classroom.
And while supportive and encouraging when it came to academics, the teachers didn’t ever ask my cohort the most critical question.
“Do you know how to be respected physically and emotionally?”
For too long, Australian educators and parents have focused on the wrong aspect of our well-being.
New consent laws were introduced on Wednesday.
The infamous tea video in 2017 was the only consent education I received while at school, which avoided naming the problem and failed to address the already taboo topic.
Last year’s confusing “milkshake and taco” consent video also missed the mark.
After leaving school, life became both exciting and confronting. Yes, the thrill of dressing up and clubbing felt like freedom, but looking back, it was nothing more than a “free for all” for the opposite sex.
Like many others, I quickly found out that any notion of consent is often lost on the dancefloor, amongst the strobe lights and smoke machines.
Brazenly “touching up” girls is commonplace in these social situations and nightclubs can often provide a “get out of jail free card” for wandering hands.
Shockingly, the vile act has become normalised.
Recently I was shocked to read a report that found one in every six University students has been sexually harassed since starting their studies.
In a place where my degree is my only focus, why as a woman, must I subconsciously remain hyper-vigilant to a potential threat?
Last year, the consent package for NSW schools and parents was developed, focusing on support for teachers and engagement with parents. However, the initiative is only mandatory for state schools and optional for independent schools like the one I attended.